Child Behavior Chart
- How To Motivate & Reward Your Toddler!

Reward charts.

A child behavior chart is a helpful way to motivate young children.

They see their progress and participate in the daily steps toward the reward.

The chart stands out as a testimony of good behavior for all to see.

Charts work because they are interactive and fun.

Even the business world uses charts as profit motivators.

Throughout life many children will be surrounded by performance charts, so they may as well get used to seeing them in their home.

As you weed out undesirable behaviors one by one, your child gradually gets used to the feelings that come with good behavior, and these feelings become self-motivating.

The need for charting lessens as your child grows, and you will need to find new clutter for your kitchen wall.

In making reward charts, consider these tips:

• Follow the basic rule: KISMIF – Keep it simple, make it fun.

• Work with your child. Let your child help construct the chart and make daily entries

• Construct the chart so that the child has a visual image of closing in on the reward. We have gotten best results from a "connect the dots" chart. Have the child draw a picture of what she wants. Then outline the periphery of the picture with dots several inches apart. With each day of successful behavior (e.g., each time he remembers to take out the trash) the child connects another dot. When all the dots are connected, the child collects the prize.

• Display the chart in a high visibility location. (We strategically place ours on the wall along the path between the kitchen table and the refrigerator.) Giving the chart a high profile and high visibility gives the child easy access, serves as a frequent reminder of the desired behavior, and lets her proudly exhibit her progress.

• Make the chart interactive: connecting dots, pasting on stickers or different colored stars, anything more interesting than a check mark.

• Charts can contain positive and negative entries, reminders of both types of behaviors. In my office we use daily charts to correct bedwetting in children older than five. The child puts a happy face sticker on the chart every morning he wakes up dry and a sad face sticker on the chart on mornings he wakes up wet. If the happy faces outnumber the sad faces at the end of the week, the child gets to choose where he wants to go for lunch on Saturday.

• Keep the time until the prize is collected short. Frequent, simple rewards keep motivation high. For a toddler, use end-of-the-hour rewards; for the preschooler, end-of-the-day rewards; for the school-age child, end-of-the- week rewards. A month is an unreachable eternity for any child. For the preschool child, rather than set a calendar time, refer to an event such as "dinner time" or "after Sunday school." Novelty wears off quickly for children. Change charts frequently.

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