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In a child’s education an important factor is the parents’ expertise for this “job”. No one is born holding all the knowledge, but we can learn and understand some things from books or advice from qualified persons. Amongst the commandments a parent should strictly follow are the following: 1. Do not underestimate your child – he can understand more than you think he does and if you make him believe you think poorly of him this might affect his development. 2. Don’t use threat – a child loves a challenge and once threatened he might probably go on and do what he wasn’t suppose to just to see if he can escape the punishment. 3. Do not bribe your child – if you are trying to get him to learn for money for example, he will fail to understand the importance of “Learning” , all he will get from this is the importance of money. 4. Do not make a small child promise something – small children can’t hold promises so don’t force them to lie and then punish them because they did that.
5. Do not keep them under a short leash – to grow up normally children need some space, some freedom.6. Do not use big words or too many words when you are talking to your child – keep your ideas simple and concise so he can understand every thing you have to say. 7. Do not expect an immediate and blind obedience – it is not recommended, the child has to be learned to think for his own not to follow orders. 8. Do not indulge him too mush – he can develop compartmental disorders. 9. Do not compromise when it comes to the rules of a GAME – the trick for a game to become educative is too have its initial rules respected. 10. Don’t impose rules that don’t go with the age of your child. 11. Do not try to inflict quilt – quilt is not an appropriate feeling for children, especially if they are little. 12. Don’t give your child orders that you don’t take seriously – your child will try to please you and giving him an order is drastic, and it becomes cruel if that order is a joke. All these “commandments” are addressed first to the parent. But they are to be referred to by teachers and educators as well. Along with the parents, they will settle upon an attitude and strategy for the education and growth of the child, so that they can give him all the things he needs to properly develop emotional and physically. AN ACTIVE PARTNERSHIP – PARENTS/KINDERGARTEN Pre-school “Learning” is an educative partner of the family. Here are some reasons that make kindergarten an extremely important educative factor: - it creates an environment adequate for children and it puts them in contact helping them become social- assure a good debut for primary school- is an environment of protection and passing time with pleasure- Form one kindergarten to the other there are differences regarding the closed and open space children dispose of, the didactic materials, the level of qualification of the teachers and their wish for doing the best they can. Any state or particular kindergarten that is authorized is obliged to offer a good learning process. From the managerial offer of the kindergarten or school, the parents have to find out what are the conditions of life and the environment of the unit, as well as the potential of the personnel. Directly or indirectly, kindergarten teacher conduct the entire activity of the children. Part of the educative activity is done with the whole group of children, and part is done in stages, with one at a time or with little groups at a time. The partnership between parents and teachers has to happen. The problems that can come up in such situations vary a lot. Children can come to the kindergarten and have trouble adapting, socially and intellectually both or esthetic and physical. The causes for these things can be discovered by the teachers and parents together. Both the parents of children with difficulties and the ones of children with a normal evolution must be contacted to settle educational programs that involve the family. Parents can continue at home the educational Games their children played in the kindergarten hours, so that the children gain confidence in their power and in the future they can have the initiative when giving answers or volunteering for a game. The purpose of kindergarten is to make children become social persons, to prepare them for school and to allow them to have fun while they learn. They must be introduce to learning and classrooms at this age, or it will be harder for them be harder to adapt and maintain control once they start primary school. SCHOOL KID’S ROOM Once your child starts school, there are required several changes in his room’s layout. Now, a study place is a must, a place where the little scholar can prepare for school, learn and do his homework. The study place has to be regularly near the window so that his arm will now place a shadow on the books in front of him. Accordingly to this rule, if we are talking about a right-handed child, the light must be on his left, and if talking about a left-handed child, the light must be on his right.Due to the new born needs of the school-boy, the furniture must include a desk and some small cabinets or a small bookcase. The study table or desk must have at least 60 X 90 cm and its height and inclination has to be adjustable. There must be some kind of drawers nest to it or in it to deposit books, paper, pens and other school stuff. For this same purpose, the parents must consider buying a bookcase or a cabinet for books, which fits the room and the height of your child. For a optimal use of space, a desk with a study table and some shelves can be chosen. Natural lighting has to be supplemented or maintained by a local light. This is why the desk must have on it a lamp with adjustable arm, placed in such a way that it can focalize the light precisely to the point it is needed.The chair must have an adjustable height, fitting the one of the scholar. Recently, the computer became a necessary object in the child’s room, even in the early student’s room. Used either for fun or study, it has to become a familiar instrument for the little one. An “L” shaped desk allows a good position for the computer, with the monitor on one side in the corner. Be careful because the distance from the monitor and to the eyes of the person using the computer has to be of 50 – 70 cm. 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